“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”
- Thomas Edison
Why do some people who have incredible gifts and abilities end up going nowhere? I believe that the main reason that those talented people get stuck in their career mud is how they respond to failure. They take the easy route, accept failure and give up. And, watch out, they may throw some blame and victimization your way.
On the other hand, successful people learn from failure. In fact, most successful people fail faster and more often than the average person. They learn enough from failure to be successful.
When failure shows up:
- You have to stay in the game. You may have to change direction but you are in good company. Every successful person has been where you are. No one has been successful without overcoming some adversity along the way.
- Failure is teacher. Keep your eyes open to the opportunities that failure is teaching you to move toward.
- Don’t hang your head. Hold your head high and look failure squarely in the eye and say, “I am bigger than you. You cannot ruin me. I am going to learn from you and whip you.”
Excerpted from Monday Morning Choices by David Cottrell.